If you've ever had sex with anyone, you've entered a soul tie with that person
It means to have a godless marriage established with the flesh, and until you have been divorced from all of your previous lovers, you are not free to marry
Yet, you say you're waiting on GOD for your husband. You've decided to add waiting to long list of self-appointed titles you've given yourself in your attempt to get the stuff and the lifestyle you want GOD to give you. But nothing seems to be working, so you become more and more bitter towards GOD; after all, you've been working at your wait for a long time. And to add insult to injury, some "holier-than-thou" sister posts up a picture of her ashy hand, clad with a beautiful diamond engagement ring with the caption "I said yes!"What.You remember when she first started her wait. As a matter of fact, you encouraged her, and now she's getting married? Dude has to be an Ishmael. or at least, you hope he is.
What's happening with you is that you never truly entered "the wait". Instead, you came into the idea of the wait, but you removed JESUS from the equation when you chose works over faith.
